Resources

Guides, checklists and answers

A place to start before you open the book — the same checklists, prompts and plain answers your family will one day be glad you left them.

The When I’m Not Here checklist pages

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The “When I’m Not Here” checklist

The book closes with step-by-step checklists to guide your family when the day comes. It begins like this:

  • Notify family and close friends
  • Contact lawyer / executor
  • Arrange for care of pets
  • Secure home and property
  • Manage mail and important documents
  • Access digital accounts (see Section 4)
  • Notify banks, insurance and other institutions
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Guides From the Book

Where each kind of information lives

Personal Information

The key details about you, all in one place — who you are, and the documents that prove it.

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Digital Life

Devices, accounts, and how to access them — with passwords kept safely in a password manager, never in the book.

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Legal Documents & Wishes

Will, power of attorney, and key documents — and where each one is kept.

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Questions

Families ask us

Does the book hold my passwords?

No — never. It is a map, not a store. It records where things are and how to find the instructions; passwords and PINs belong in a password manager.

Is this a will?

No. The book records your wishes and where your documents are. Wills, estates and powers of attorney belong with a lawyer, and we’ll happily point you to one.

Can I give it as a gift?

Yes — many books are gifts from adult children to their parents, and the companion sessions make it a gift of time together, too.

What if my situation changes?

That’s what the back section and the annual review are for. Update a page, replace a letter, and your book stays true.

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No pressure, no forms to wrestle with. Just a hello.

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